Is it wrong ? Please,Christian men! References from the Bible are apprieciated!?
I need to know,and I feel these questions are best answered by other men ! Is it wrong to listen to love songs and soft disco (mostly oldies)! And because I was unable to have children.Am I not supposed to keep the possibility of one day getting married again? How can you get married and not have sex .Since, sex is mainly for having children.And as Christian women are we allowed to buy sexy pajamas or only flannel type sleepwear. Thank you!
Where are you getting your information??
There's nothing wrong with listening to love songs, soft disco, or any other type of music, unless it "causes you to stumble", according to the bible.
Sex is not "mainly" for having children. That's one aspect of it, but sex was also instituted by God as the ultimate way of expressing your love for another. Even if you can't have children, that shouldn't prevent you from having sex with your husband.
Why would you not be allowed to buy sexy pajamas? Seems to me that whatever made you feel sexy (be it "sexy pajamas or flannel sleepwear...which I have found to be quite sexy at times...especially red plaid flannel pants)...is what you ought to be wearing.
Being Christian does NOT mean stifling your sexuality.