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I want to leave my wife. Why shouldn't I?

She had an emotional affair for months that apparently ended in some makeout sessions. She says that's all it was. I don't think I believe her. I found out about it at one point, supposedly before they made out, and she said it was nothing. I later found out it wasn't nothing and that it went on two more months after I asked her to cut it off with him. It really upset me and I can never think about her in the same way. I love my kids and having a family, but, I don't like living with her even though she says it is over and she will remain faithful. It hurts me to see her cry, but, I want to go. Why shouldn't I? Can she be faithful? Isn't once a liar always a liar true? Once a cheater always a cheater!
We've been married 12 years and have two kids. I don't want to leave the kids. But I have a hard time showing affection toward my wife.
Islam has nothing for me. Jesus Christ is my savior.

I'm not going to tell you what to do. That decision is ultimately yours. However, I can offer you my advice as a man with children who's ex-wife cheated. First of all, I find it very hard to believe she only kissed this man in makeout sessions over several months. Let's be serious here. Isn't that something a couple of High School virgins would do? So the real question is has she even been completely honest?

Now here's the other side of it. A part of you still loves her and wishes this could somehow be undone but it can't. Your resentment will only grow stronger in your current situation. Twelve years & two kids is alot to consider. However, adultery is the ultimate betrayl and kids alone are not a reason to stay together. I think it's worse to have two parents in the same household who have fallen out of love. Kids aren't experienced but they aren't stupid and can pick up on negativity easily.

I initially tried to stay but realized I'm not the type of man that can deal with infidelity. The thoughts would never leave my mind and I only became more insecure. I'm not the type to cheat so why should I have to accept someone who cheats on me? If you stay, be prepared for many years of counseling but you will never forget. If you decide to leave, try to have a civil divorce and file for full or shared custody of your children. However, tears or not you need to do what's best for you.

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